Domain name in the future..

For those new to my blog, I plan to do a domain change as soon as this one is close to renewal.  My reason is that once July 1, 2015 comes around, I will no longer be a military wife. I will be a retiree wife. But 2015 will be bringing lots of changes for my family and I want to go ahead and start making plans now for those changes.

We will be moving from North Carolina down to Florida. We will be leaving my parents and joining his down in Florida along with his siblings and their kids.

I am an only child, so once my mom and dad2 aka stepdad are gone, I will not really have any family left that I really count. So when we were deciding where we wanted to retire, we at first chose Texas. That is where he calls home for the most part. But since we both would have no close family there, we decided it would be better to move to a place where we had family we could rely on.

So with all that said, I plan to make changes sometime next year.  I am still debating on the domain name and all that comes along with it.

The blog will still be about my family, I will share the link with my parents *shudders* lol,  I will talk about the changes, as well as posting pictures.

Time to play catch up..

I have missed so much over the past few weeks with school being so hectic with project after project. So I am taking this "break" as a time to catch up on all of your blogs. I may or maynot comment on all of the posts since I know that getting comments on old posts are kind of annoying at times.

I am hoping to do a video blog next week while Hubby is at work and the boys are at school. I just hope the dog cooperates and leaves me alone while I do it. LOL

I really need to get better about blogging because I want to build friendships with my readers. Blogging is such fun thing to do, when you do it on your own terms instead of what is expected of you.

Anyways, I am going to go catch up on BlogLovin' for a while. Hit me up on Twitter @nikidca

or email me at areallifemilwifeblog@gmail.com

Nothing seems as important anymore...

After yesterdays tragic news, nothing seems more important than spending time with those you love.  Life is too short, we are only given a specific amount of time on this earth, and I want to enjoy every last second of it.


I will bask in the laughter of my kids more.
I will  watch more movies with my kids.
I will have more tickle fights with them.
I will hug them even tighter every day.
I will kiss them good morning and good night.
I will continue to thank god for each precious day he gives me with my family.

I do not want to take even a second of the precious time I have left on this earth, worrying about the piddly crap anymore.

As hard as it to even fathom what the families are going through, I want to think of all the new Angels God has watching over the world.

My heart is breaking for the families of those lost today in CT.

My heart is literally breaking in to a trillion pieces for the families of the children and adults that were lost today.My prayers go out to their families in this tragedy.

Violence is everywhere. We cannot get away from it. This makes me so mad that innocent blood was spilled today.

I am going to be holding my children tighter than ever tonight as I know most of the other parents around the world will be doing as well.

May those lost rest in peace, may their families be able to weather this tragedy and the light shine from the souls of those lost.